did_you_find_violets, did_you_find_violets@lemmy.world

I actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.

fem guys already relate to content targeted toward women since their lived experience is closer to that than to the typical man, so no exclusion.

men often do this. post is about something women related -> “but what about the men?”. we don’t have a duty or obligation to include men in every single conversation. men can also create their own content/conversations, and they should. hijacking/inserting themselves just reeks of insecurity and misogyny.

edit and just to be clear: anyone who finds this post relatable is more than valid and welcome, regardless of gender. it’s just the act of explicitly turning it into a “won’t somebody please think of the men?” thing that really grinds my gears.

1. the experiences of boys and girls in society aren’t comparable.

2. this post is about girls, going “but what about the boys?” on it is just misogyny.

cause traditionally/stereotypically feminine things are seen as stupid, useless, and cringe while masculine ones are seen as serious, deep, and respectable.

trans people also show that being a man is seen as an “upgrade” while being a woman a “downgrade” (trans men don’t get a fraction of the hate trans women do). same thing with tomboys-femboys.

plus, a man and woman could do the exact same thing (being assertive for example) & the perception will be different (woman - bitch, man - boss).

birdwatching is awesome

thank you for this, actually. i don’t give my posts much thought, my style is stream of consciousness combined with yapping. fun analysis to read.🫶

The court’s shaded and I play in the morning, so overheating isn’t really an issue. Then it’s straight into the pool afterward.

I don’t see how it’s bragging. Everyone has their own lives, so the answers are bound to vary. It’s 9 a.m. and I was just thinking about how much I enjoy doing this every morning, which got me wondering what other people are into these days.

disclaimer: any activity involving choking should not be taken lightly.

a collar and leash is also way safer than a belt.

in March, I made a post on asklemmy about going on a date with a ’93 guy (date ended up not happening) and oh boy did i get flamed.😭

that’s exactly what I’m doing rn, living my daddy fantasy this summer. plus, I asked my dad to set me up with someone, so the guy I’m seeing is vetted and my dad knows him well, which makes me feel super safe and comfortable. i’ll probably get hate for this on here, but it is what it is.😌

it’s crazy on the opposite end too cause wdym someone born in 1990 is old enough to be my dad (i’m a Feb 2008 baby). that’s so recent and most of my favorite celebrities are from that era and I don’t see them as old😭

my guess: for men, even little things such as seeing boobs (especially in real life) is “taboo”/exciting. so their idea of “perverted” is pretty tame.

a self proclaimed kinky guy told me that me rimming him is “too much” for him. wdym too much that’s super basic😵‍💫

All the Blackpink members come from wealthy families. I don’t know why people keep trying to portray them as self-made🥴

for me: intense, heavy fullness and a deep, rhythmic pressure in the pelvis + indirect hitting of vaginal nerve endings from behind (A-spot).